Life is not at all symmetric like the engine thump or the ups and down of ECG graph nor as can be explained by someone else. Your life is as unique as a fingerprint or an iris. Only you are liable and answerable to how to deal with everything going on in your life.
Usually we tend to ask someone, we feel better or more advance, the tactic to solve any problem or to face any hurdle in whereabouts of our life. We ask for and we get it because the easiest job in the world is to give an advice. We always have solution to almost all of the problem anybody could ask for, but we always fail to help ourselves.
In my opinion there is only one person who understands me which is me and no one else. If anybody else is giving any solution to your problem then it is his way or approach of solving the problem not yours. I am not saying that everybody is wrong but yes there are few people who can be taken into consideration anytime, like our family or our closest friends. They will always try to help you and we should be always thankful to them.
What I really want to say is that whatever problem you are facing, you are the only one to ace it because no one understands you better than yourself. Only you know how much you can stretch yourself and prove yourself. There is no doubt that in order to achieve something you need a proper guidance and that’s for sure a constant entity.
The only mantra is to go by your instinct, seeking approval from yourself and words of wisdom from the ones whom you can count upon. Whatever you do, whenever you do must be justifiable to your soul because unit of life is only “one” and that is all you have. In spite of crying over spilled milk, see that shining sun above.